Harry Styles’ sister, Gemma Styles, recently revealed that she had kept her pregnancy private in order to ensure her baby daughter remained “safe and protected.” Gemma, who is a 33-year-old writer and influencer, surprised her 10.4 million followers earlier this year when she announced the birth of her daughter with her partner, Michal Miynowski, in February. The couple chose not to disclose the pregnancy publicly until after the birth, a decision that Gemma has now explained in more detail through social media.
In an Instagram Q&A session, one of her followers asked why she chose to keep her pregnancy hidden from the public. Gemma responded by sharing that her reasons were both personal and practical. “To be honest, it was a mixture of things, some more personal and some less so,” she wrote. The primary factor in her decision, she explained, was wanting to ensure that she and her baby received important medical information from later-stage scans before going public.
However, she also expressed concern about whether she would be able to keep the pregnancy secret, especially given her attendance at her brother Harry Styles’ ‘Love On Tour’ shows. “I thought there was no way I was going to get through the last Love On Tour shows without people noticing my bump,” she admitted. “But it turns out I managed to keep it under wraps, and eventually, I was like, ‘I think I can make it to the end,’ and that felt like the right decision for us.”
Gemma further elaborated on her thought process, particularly on the challenges of navigating privacy in the digital age. She reflected on how difficult it can be to manage personal information once it’s shared online, comparing it to the adage of not being able to “put the toothpaste back in the tube.” This metaphor emphasized her belief that once intimate details are made public, it can be impossible to retract them or control how they spread.
“I’ve never done this before; I don’t know what she [her daughter] would want, and we want to keep her safe and protected,” she shared candidly. Gemma also pointed out that many parents choose not to share their children’s faces, names, or personal details on social media for privacy reasons. While she didn’t commit to any specific long-term approach, she mentioned that she and Michal would figure out what felt right for them and their daughter in time.
Responding to a comment from a follower who praised her for maintaining such a high level of privacy during her pregnancy, Gemma expressed her gratitude. “Thank you, I appreciate that!” she replied, indicating that the decision wasn’t always easy but was something she felt strongly about. She acknowledged that her feelings about privacy might change in the future, but for now, her primary concern is her daughter’s well-being and security.
In February, Gemma shared a heartwarming post in which she introduced her baby girl to the world. Accompanied by a touching photo of the new family of three, as well as a shot of her cradling her newborn in her hospital bed, Gemma announced the arrival of their daughter. However, she chose not to reveal the baby’s name.
In her post, she wrote, “Hello from maternity leave! Took some time off to ensure the safe arrival of our baby girl, who is adored by her whole family.” Gemma also took the time to acknowledge that news of her pregnancy and birth might be difficult for some of her followers. “I know that this news can be difficult for many people, and I’m sending you lots of love,” she said, showing empathy and sensitivity towards her diverse audience.
Gemma’s decision to keep such a personal event out of the spotlight reflects a growing trend among celebrities and public figures to exercise greater caution when sharing details about their private lives. Many, like Gemma, are concerned about the potential risks associated with oversharing on social media, especially when it involves their children. The internet can be an unpredictable space, and once certain information is made public, it can be hard to control how it is used or interpreted.
As the sister of one of the world’s most famous pop stars, Gemma has experienced public attention for years, but she has generally kept a lower profile compared to Harry Styles. Her decision to maintain privacy during her pregnancy and in the early months of her daughter’s life is a testament to her desire to create a safe and healthy environment for her family, away from the pressures and scrutiny of public life.
Though Gemma hasn’t disclosed whether or when she will share more details about her daughter, she has expressed appreciation for the support she has received from her followers. “I really appreciate all the supportive messages checking in on how we are,” she wrote, adding, “It’s so nice that people care – we’re good!”
Gemma’s candidness about the challenges of balancing public attention with family life has resonated with many, and her decision to prioritize her daughter’s safety and privacy has been widely applauded by her fan base. For now, she and her family seem to be settling into their new life together, enjoying this special time in relative peace and privacy.